Life Without Limits

I wish I was good enough. I wish I was like Her. I'm Worthless. I hate everyone. I hate life. there are always times that you wish you had this and didnt have that; you start focusing on those things until it will take over your mind and you start forgetting the things you have. wishing cant help, you can never get anything from wishing you were someone else, because you will never will be someone else, You're the only one you could be. Nothing is holding you back from being a happier person more than your insecurities. always be thankful for the things you have, be thankful that you've got a complete body, there are some people out there that don't have arms and legs while you are taking your body for granted and harming it. STOP. just please stop.You'll never find a rainbow when you're looking down. chin up, look at the heavens and thank the God above.

if you watch adventure time, you would recognize Ice king. notice how he forces PB to love him? notice how he seeks love? notice how he sees himself as an ugly king? he thinks of himself as a loser and never believes in himself.  If you love yourself, you will be a happy person. if you believe in yourself, you won't be conscious of your body. if you are confident about yourself, the words that are thrown at you won't affect you anymore. A person with good thoughts can never be ugly. your thighs touch, your skin aint fair, youve got double chin, it won't matter because when you have good thoughts they will shine out of your face like sunbeams and you will always look lovely. All you could do in life is be who you are. some people will love you for you. Most people will love you for what you can do for them, and some won't like you at all. that's life, you can't please everyone. you never will.

Never sum up your life and never fear your future. never fear life. believe that life is worth living; and your belief will help create the fact. enjoy every sandwich. dance to your favorite  music. laugh at the corniest jokes. read good books. drink more starbucks. receive more hugs. give more hugs. run from barking dogs while barking back at them. meow at cats. smile at your loved one. smile at strangers like a creeper. EAT PIZZA. there are tons of things in life to be happy about in life, why let words ruin it? Don't say sorry to people because you think you ain't good enough but say sorry to yourself because you were wrong for thinking that way.  shall we make a new rule of life from now on: Always try to be a little kinder than is necessary to yourself and others?

please watch this video. it will make your day a little better. xx

serious issues: Depression and How to Deal with it

You're too tired, but you cant sleep. Freak. Ugly. Fat. worthless. useless. attention-whore.  these words repeat in your head over and over again as the tears comes down your face. You lay down in your bed, where in a place that its all comfortable and safe. but why aren't you feeling safe? You're trapped. Depression is a trap. you fall into it and you need people to help you up; but if you stay strong and be strong, you could find a way to get up. try and try and never give up; and the next thing you know you're feeling okay. everyone is too busy helping themselves, help yourself! be your own hero. it's really hard i know. You hear the same words every time. stay strong. you're beautiful. I love you. and bunch of sweet things. it doesn't work at all. why? because you're building walls and letting no one in. you want to feel loved but how can you feel loved when you are too stubborn to believe the truths people are telling you. sure, maybe someone has hurt you before. but dont let that person represent everyone that's trying to help you.

• Don't tell God you have a problem, tell the problem that you have a great God.
• You know what is incredible? you get to talk with the creator of the universe and have a relationship with him. we can pray and he will listen. he is always there. he's just waiting for you to seek him.
• The only way that you can get out of darkness ( problems)  is to follow the light (God). 
• Don't have a heart like stone. still learn to love and you will be loved.
• There's no such thing as perfection and life is not a race. 
• Stop crying over something that's not going to matter after a year or two. try not to let it get to you, you're gonna be alright. 

• If you start believing in yourself and believe that you are worthy, nothing else will matter to you anymore. you'll be happier with yourself, and when some says crap about you, it wouldnt hurt you anymore because you know that aint true
• write your feelings down, maybe in a notebook; but never ever post them on social media sites, it could make it worse.
• Smile. just smile!

• watch funny vines, videos or gif and stop thinking for a while.

• read books. 
• eat and never feel guilty. 
• workout! it will make you feel better. 
• laugh so hard until you snore. 
• Set a goal and promise yourself to be a happier person.
• start surrounding yourself with positive energy.
• Stop complaining about your life; appreciate the little things and be thankful that you are still alive. 
• if you are worthless, God would have never made you; and if he hated you, he would've stopped your life but he didn't. there is a reason that you are still alive.
• Consult a friend. A person you are not afraid of. Someone who makes your life better with their advice. someone who has been  there from the start, not only when your life start being chaotic. always have him/her in your life; don't close your doors on that person. Don't keep a secret from him/her, id you are, you are living a  double life.
• People can and will help you, you just need to search them out. 
• sometimes, you just have to let things go and forget it, no matter how heavy they are.
• You won't and can't be sad forever.
• God will always finish what He started. No matter how dark it looks, no matter how long it’s been, no matter how many people are trying to knock you down; just stay in faith. God will never put you down. You will see your day of breakthrough because God will complete what He started. Just try to trust him, nothing can go wrong.

to you who is reading this, I pray that this somehow changed your mind and changed the way you see life.  I pray that you will stay strong and think positive thoughts. I pray that you realize how important you are. I pray that you won't be one of the people that puts herself down, youre the only one you've got. Let's be friends, m'kay? Lets be mega best friends. Lets talk about the serious issues down to the stupidest and random things. Lets fangirl. Lets send fancy emails to each other. Lets be happy and fall in love with being alive x

                                                                

Tips on How to be Happy with yourself

• Comparing yourself to others is a trap. there are always people who are smarter, richer, talented, and more popular than you. stop comparing yourself because you can never be them, and being like them is totally boring. You are unique so stop trying to be a carbon copy of others. start being the best you can be.

• Acceptance. Accept who you are, respect yourself enough to know that you deserve the very best. you dont deserve the hate and the pressure you give to yourself.

• Be your own best friend. take care of yourself. love yourself and people will love you. be kind to yourself and others will be kind to you. if you treat yourself badly, people will start treating you badly too. 

• Dont seek for love. Telling people that you are sad and depressed and expecting them to love you, doesnt make you lovable. yes, people will love you and care about you, but just because they sympathize you. it will just make you sound desperate.

• Love yourself. loving yourself is the greatest love of all. Give and gain love.

• Build up your self esteem and improve your self image.

• Forgive others. 

• Smile and make other people smile.

• Promise yourself that each day, you will make the best out of everything. its like a little guide and reminder to keep you happy.

• Slow down. Dont rush, dont stress. 

• Dont judge other people and dont find the wrong with people. remember, the way you treat and think of people are just the reflection of how we think of ourselves. 

• “Being yourself is all it takes. If you want to impress someone don’t be someone else just be yourself" - Selena Gomez
• Appreciate the little things. Stop wanting things what you don't have and be contented for what you have. stop taking things for granted because there is someone out there who badly needs the things you are taking for granted.
• Surround yourself with happy people and people who make you happy. you are who you surround yourself with.
• Push yourself. if people tell you negative things, use them as an inspiration and prove to them that you are so much better than what they think.