There comes a time that someone walks into the room and makes you feel something. something strange. you tell your friends about it and they tell you that " you must be in love". but, how can you be in love with someone that you have just met?
Crushing on someone means only that you feel attracted to that person because of his/her physical attributes…or skills. It is definitely more shallow than falling in love with a person. People say that personality is more important than your physical looks. Sure! In the long run… But what do people see first? Physical Appearance. You don’t go fantasizing about your crush, telling yourself and your friends, “I love his personality. He’s so nice. I want him to meet my parents.” NOPE. You can say that when you’re close to falling in love with him. But you could only ever say, “He’s so cute.. His voice can grow flowers and his smile could cure cancer" (REALLY LAME. I know. but admit it we all do it. lol)”
Crushing on someone means only that you feel attracted to that person because of his/her physical attributes…or skills. It is definitely more shallow than falling in love with a person. People say that personality is more important than your physical looks. Sure! In the long run… But what do people see first? Physical Appearance. You don’t go fantasizing about your crush, telling yourself and your friends, “I love his personality. He’s so nice. I want him to meet my parents.” NOPE. You can say that when you’re close to falling in love with him. But you could only ever say, “He’s so cute.. His voice can grow flowers and his smile could cure cancer" (REALLY LAME. I know. but admit it we all do it. lol)”
okay lets just take this Imagine:
Adam Levine/ Megan Fox, sexiest people alive, really talented and humorous, didnt look like the hotties we all know; let's just say, they swapped faces with the weird school nerd that no one talks to in your school, would you still be in love with them aka the most disgusting person you have ever known but yet really talented and humorous ? Nope, i don't think so.
Sometimes, we use the word " love" too much that it starts to lose its meaning and starts becoming something common and nothing special. next time, if you think your in love with someone you have just met, think twice and figure out if its really love? OR NAH? maybe, its just another silly crush.
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