How to be a Better Person

There are always times that you feel like everything is a mess, you get grumpy and feel like there is no way you could get out of the trap. you start to get moody, and your mood just changes every moment you remember something. And now, to skip all the chit chat and introduction, here are some tips on how to be a better person! because you are already good enough!

• BE ORGANIZED - Write down your Agenda and the things you have to do for the week; always have extra space in your bag, or have secret pockets. ( trust me, you wouldn't want to freak out and look like a hot mess because you cant find your keys in your bag) 
• BE POSITIVE ABOUT EVERYTHING - Sleep with the thought that you're not going to repeat the same mistakes and wake up with the thought that you are going to be a better person than you were yesterday.
• LIVE HEALTHIER - workout, eat vegetables and less white rice, and drink 2 liters of water everyday. 
• BE A HERO - you dont need to have superpowers to be a superhero. you just need a helping hand, always observe people and run to them if they need help. do something that will make people smile and thank you. this will make you feel better and a little more proud. 
• GET RID OF ALL THE TOXIC PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE - you dont deserve each other. how can you be a better person, when someone is dragging you down? you dont have to be scared or afraid; tell them that you need space - with respect; if they'll truly your "friends" they wouldnt get mad and theyll understand. 
• HAVE SOME TIME ALONE - have a day where you just relax and forget about your problems. 
• BE INSPIRED - print out some inspiring and motivating pictures and post it on your wall. 
• BE HAPPY - just take a moment to look around and notice all the beautiful things around you. Be happy and contented with what you have. 

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if you have any questions, reactions (even violent ones. lol ) or if you just want someone to talk to please feel free to comment on the comment section below. or  tweet me  and lets be friends! I Love You to the moon and back, even if I dont know you, I still care. and Let me remind you that you may not have everything but the creator of all things loves you endlessly and is so proud of you. You're beautiful, don't ever waste your time because you will never be young as you are now. be a blessing in someone's life. :) xx

How to stay healthy during summer

1.)  Since its summer and you cant help it but sweat, you have to stay hydrated, and to stay hydrated, you gotta drink lots and lots of water, but not too much because too much can actually cause death! for teenagers 13+ should at least drink 8 glasses of water everyday. tip: add slices of watermelon into your water for double power!

2.)  It's alright to get some sunlight and have some tanning session with your friends, but you still need to protect your skin from the heat of the sun, so put some sunscreen on your skin, honey, it'll just take 3 minutes. 

 3.)Abs and firm thighs don't grow on trees, YOU SHOULD WORK FOR THEM. you can't just sit down and watch TV or be on your phone all day! If youre too tired for the same old squats and crunches, try something different, like, use your bike if youre going to go somewhere around the corner, use the stairs as much as possible, be the one that will push the cart in the grocery store, help your mom with house hold chores. just stay active!

 4.)  Drink green tea every morning, you will sure lose some weight for the day

5.) Dont forget about your diet! if you want me to go deeper and post about a healthy diet, let me know. Eat Healthy and Stay Healthy! Maybe, have a cheat day and eat whatever you want on that day!

6.)  Have Fun with your friends and family, forget all the negativity, laugh ( laughing also helps you lose calories!) and cherish every moment because in less than three months, you will go back to school and regret all the things you havent done during summer.

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 if you have any questions, reactions (even violent ones. lol ) or if you just want someone to talk to please feel free to comment on the comment section below. or tweet me at https://twitter.com/HisLoveIsPure and lets be friends! I Love You to the moon and back, even if I dont know you, I still care. and Let me remind you that you may not have everything but the creator of all things loves you endlessly and is so proud of you. You're beautiful, don't ever waste your time because you will never be young as you are now. be a blessing in someone's life. :) xx

♡ Things to do when you are Anxious ♡

hey guys! here is a quick post about forgetting the world and doing what you wanna do xx

• Text Someone
• Listen to upbeat music. you can find some on 8tracks! its a free app and really user- friendly, plus, you get to discover some rad music!
• Draw anything you want!
• Write your feelings out
• Read a good book and get lost in the world of fiction. best feeling ever
• Go on the internet. I don't recommend tumblr, because mostly, it gives negative vibes. I recommend you watching funny videos on youtube!.

 here are some good channels: 

• Ryan Higa  (nigahiga)
• Smosh 
• King Bach ( its not his official channel. but you can find him on vine: KingBach) 
• asdf movie
• Kevin Hart: Seriously funny 

• Go to sleep.
• Watch Movies.  I recommend Action-Comedy movies or maybe horror/thriller. something like 21 jump street or cabin in the woods.
• Go for a walk.
• Print some Pictures with you and your loved ones and post it on your wall.and you will realize that you are loved.
• Talk to friends/ Family or even internet friends!
• Watch old videos of you!
• Stay warm in your Bed.
• Message me!

Love at First Sight

There comes a time that someone walks into the room and makes you feel something. something strange. you tell your friends about it and they tell you that " you must be in love". but, how can you be in love with someone that you have  just met?

Crushing on someone means only that you feel attracted to that person because of his/her physical attributes…or skills. It is definitely more shallow than falling in love with a person. People say that personality is more important than your physical looks. Sure! In the long run… But what do people see first? Physical Appearance. You don’t go fantasizing about your crush, telling yourself and your friends, “I love his personality. He’s so nice. I want him to meet my parents.” NOPE. You can say that when you’re close to falling in love with him. But you could only ever say, “He’s so cute.. His voice can grow flowers and his smile could cure cancer" (REALLY LAME. I know. but admit it we all do it. lol)”

okay lets just take this Imagine:
Adam Levine/ Megan Fox, sexiest people alive, really talented and humorous, didnt look like the hotties we all know; let's just say, they swapped faces with the weird school nerd that no one talks to in your school, would you still be in love with them aka the most disgusting person you have ever known but yet really talented and humorous ? Nope, i don't think so.

Sometimes, we use the word " love" too much that it starts to lose its meaning and starts becoming something common and nothing special. next time, if you think your in love with someone you have just met, think twice and figure out if its really love? OR NAH? maybe, its just another silly crush.

How to deal with Broken Relationships

They might still think about you, but act like nothing tragic happened before, they never tell their friends about it and that simply shows that there is a concern ; that they didn't completely unfriend you but they just stopped being that kind of person whom you were comfortable with because you've stopped being that kind of person to them too. 

They might still think about you; about how a stranger suddenly meant the world to them, and they might think of how their world started falling apart. they might still want to fix things up, but that doesn't really matter, what matters is how they are doing about it and if they are not doing anything and run away from it, you don't deserve each other. You deserve someone who shows that they need you in their life, who would do anything to show you they appreciate you; you don't deserve excuses, broken promises and unsaid explanations.

Just because something is over, doesn't mean it wasn't incredibly beautiful, not all stories have a happy ending, and you have to deal with that. 

Life Without Limits

I wish I was good enough. I wish I was like Her. I'm Worthless. I hate everyone. I hate life. there are always times that you wish you had this and didnt have that; you start focusing on those things until it will take over your mind and you start forgetting the things you have. wishing cant help, you can never get anything from wishing you were someone else, because you will never will be someone else, You're the only one you could be. Nothing is holding you back from being a happier person more than your insecurities. always be thankful for the things you have, be thankful that you've got a complete body, there are some people out there that don't have arms and legs while you are taking your body for granted and harming it. STOP. just please stop.You'll never find a rainbow when you're looking down. chin up, look at the heavens and thank the God above.

if you watch adventure time, you would recognize Ice king. notice how he forces PB to love him? notice how he seeks love? notice how he sees himself as an ugly king? he thinks of himself as a loser and never believes in himself.  If you love yourself, you will be a happy person. if you believe in yourself, you won't be conscious of your body. if you are confident about yourself, the words that are thrown at you won't affect you anymore. A person with good thoughts can never be ugly. your thighs touch, your skin aint fair, youve got double chin, it won't matter because when you have good thoughts they will shine out of your face like sunbeams and you will always look lovely. All you could do in life is be who you are. some people will love you for you. Most people will love you for what you can do for them, and some won't like you at all. that's life, you can't please everyone. you never will.

Never sum up your life and never fear your future. never fear life. believe that life is worth living; and your belief will help create the fact. enjoy every sandwich. dance to your favorite  music. laugh at the corniest jokes. read good books. drink more starbucks. receive more hugs. give more hugs. run from barking dogs while barking back at them. meow at cats. smile at your loved one. smile at strangers like a creeper. EAT PIZZA. there are tons of things in life to be happy about in life, why let words ruin it? Don't say sorry to people because you think you ain't good enough but say sorry to yourself because you were wrong for thinking that way.  shall we make a new rule of life from now on: Always try to be a little kinder than is necessary to yourself and others?

please watch this video. it will make your day a little better. xx

serious issues: Depression and How to Deal with it

You're too tired, but you cant sleep. Freak. Ugly. Fat. worthless. useless. attention-whore.  these words repeat in your head over and over again as the tears comes down your face. You lay down in your bed, where in a place that its all comfortable and safe. but why aren't you feeling safe? You're trapped. Depression is a trap. you fall into it and you need people to help you up; but if you stay strong and be strong, you could find a way to get up. try and try and never give up; and the next thing you know you're feeling okay. everyone is too busy helping themselves, help yourself! be your own hero. it's really hard i know. You hear the same words every time. stay strong. you're beautiful. I love you. and bunch of sweet things. it doesn't work at all. why? because you're building walls and letting no one in. you want to feel loved but how can you feel loved when you are too stubborn to believe the truths people are telling you. sure, maybe someone has hurt you before. but dont let that person represent everyone that's trying to help you.

• Don't tell God you have a problem, tell the problem that you have a great God.
• You know what is incredible? you get to talk with the creator of the universe and have a relationship with him. we can pray and he will listen. he is always there. he's just waiting for you to seek him.
• The only way that you can get out of darkness ( problems)  is to follow the light (God). 
• Don't have a heart like stone. still learn to love and you will be loved.
• There's no such thing as perfection and life is not a race. 
• Stop crying over something that's not going to matter after a year or two. try not to let it get to you, you're gonna be alright. 

• If you start believing in yourself and believe that you are worthy, nothing else will matter to you anymore. you'll be happier with yourself, and when some says crap about you, it wouldnt hurt you anymore because you know that aint true
• write your feelings down, maybe in a notebook; but never ever post them on social media sites, it could make it worse.
• Smile. just smile!

• watch funny vines, videos or gif and stop thinking for a while.

• read books. 
• eat and never feel guilty. 
• workout! it will make you feel better. 
• laugh so hard until you snore. 
• Set a goal and promise yourself to be a happier person.
• start surrounding yourself with positive energy.
• Stop complaining about your life; appreciate the little things and be thankful that you are still alive. 
• if you are worthless, God would have never made you; and if he hated you, he would've stopped your life but he didn't. there is a reason that you are still alive.
• Consult a friend. A person you are not afraid of. Someone who makes your life better with their advice. someone who has been  there from the start, not only when your life start being chaotic. always have him/her in your life; don't close your doors on that person. Don't keep a secret from him/her, id you are, you are living a  double life.
• People can and will help you, you just need to search them out. 
• sometimes, you just have to let things go and forget it, no matter how heavy they are.
• You won't and can't be sad forever.
• God will always finish what He started. No matter how dark it looks, no matter how long it’s been, no matter how many people are trying to knock you down; just stay in faith. God will never put you down. You will see your day of breakthrough because God will complete what He started. Just try to trust him, nothing can go wrong.

to you who is reading this, I pray that this somehow changed your mind and changed the way you see life.  I pray that you will stay strong and think positive thoughts. I pray that you realize how important you are. I pray that you won't be one of the people that puts herself down, youre the only one you've got. Let's be friends, m'kay? Lets be mega best friends. Lets talk about the serious issues down to the stupidest and random things. Lets fangirl. Lets send fancy emails to each other. Lets be happy and fall in love with being alive x

                                                                

Tips on How to be Happy with yourself

• Comparing yourself to others is a trap. there are always people who are smarter, richer, talented, and more popular than you. stop comparing yourself because you can never be them, and being like them is totally boring. You are unique so stop trying to be a carbon copy of others. start being the best you can be.

• Acceptance. Accept who you are, respect yourself enough to know that you deserve the very best. you dont deserve the hate and the pressure you give to yourself.

• Be your own best friend. take care of yourself. love yourself and people will love you. be kind to yourself and others will be kind to you. if you treat yourself badly, people will start treating you badly too. 

• Dont seek for love. Telling people that you are sad and depressed and expecting them to love you, doesnt make you lovable. yes, people will love you and care about you, but just because they sympathize you. it will just make you sound desperate.

• Love yourself. loving yourself is the greatest love of all. Give and gain love.

• Build up your self esteem and improve your self image.

• Forgive others. 

• Smile and make other people smile.

• Promise yourself that each day, you will make the best out of everything. its like a little guide and reminder to keep you happy.

• Slow down. Dont rush, dont stress. 

• Dont judge other people and dont find the wrong with people. remember, the way you treat and think of people are just the reflection of how we think of ourselves. 

• “Being yourself is all it takes. If you want to impress someone don’t be someone else just be yourself" - Selena Gomez
• Appreciate the little things. Stop wanting things what you don't have and be contented for what you have. stop taking things for granted because there is someone out there who badly needs the things you are taking for granted.
• Surround yourself with happy people and people who make you happy. you are who you surround yourself with.
• Push yourself. if people tell you negative things, use them as an inspiration and prove to them that you are so much better than what they think.

How to Love yourself

I remember when I was a high school freshman, the first time i was embarrassed about my body; I remember doing the best that i could just not to look like a freak, putting on some lipstick so i would not look like a vampire, just for all the ruthless boys who don't even think before they speak and I would go home, wear over-sized shirt not bothering myself to look down, and making myself to believe all the " you are beautiful" sayings on tumblr. lies lies lies I tell myself as I jump in my bed, my flat chest meeting my knees with my arms wrapped around them, wishing and praying that someday I will be good enough, but i can't and will never be good enough for a society whose definition of a girl is skinny, bones, fair skin, big boobs, skinny, skinny, skinny. Fall in love with yourself first. all these time I wanted and needed someone to love me was here all along. it was ME. silly me, trying to dress to impress while there was no joy deep inside. I just realized that no lipstick, nearly naked powders, smooth hair and all the bullshit thats in the criteria of beauty is  NOT what defines you. its all the little simple things you have thats worth much more than a skinny body and thigh gaps. The way you wipe your hair out of your face. the way you try to look serious in a situation. the way you laugh. the way you joke around your friends and trying to be goofy. the way you say Hi to kids and give them a smile. thats what makes you, YOU. you should start realizing that you are not living for others, you are living for yourself so stop trying to seek approval and love from the society cause we live it a world that the people are unfair, not the life that we have. so start loving yourself cause you are Diamond, believe it or not. because the only one you've got is yourself and GOD.

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How To Move On

You see them for the first time, and never in your wildest dreams you thought they'd be the one who will break your heart into pieces. When they break your heart, it’s the hardest thing you could ever go through; and no matter how much time has passed ,as the days turns to week, weeks to months and months into years, it never really goes away. You may think youre getting better, when theyre not around you, when you stop thinking about them, but when you see them or a single memory of them comes back in your kaleidoscope of memories, it hits you all over again, all at once, like a punch in the stomach. You fall apart, for the hundredth time, and you feel like you just want to run away, somewhere far away, but you cant; even if you run and run, the memory is chasing you, too; so you just decide to jump in your bed, hold your pillow tight and start crying, crying, crying.  You love this person with all of your heart, even though you know you shouldn’t. but yet, you still want them, and only them. They hurt you worse than you’ve ever been hurt. They stole your happiness, they took the biggest part of you, without you knowing. But yet, you still want them, only them. Other people come and gave you chances to move on, you want to follow them and move on but there is a part of you that still wants to hold on. At the end of the day, youre still thinking about the person who has left you completely broken. You don’t want to miss them anymore. You don’t want to love them anymore, but you know you always will. You try so hard to get better and forget it all, and hope that one day you wake up and youre over them.

You can't move on unless you want to. you can't move on if they are still around you. You can't move on if youre still re-reading your text conversations. You cant move on if youre still stalking them in social media sites. You can't move on if youre forcing yourself, the more you force yourself, the more your feelings would rebel. give it time. time heals wounds. Don't rush. its all about the baby steps. Delete their number. try to avoid the places that you can find them. you've got same class as them? its cool. Don't pay too much attention on them. try to stop yourself from daydreaming or glancing at them. if they approach you, its fine. try to be friends, but remember that youre moving on and dont want them as the holder of your heart. but if they are not around the places that  you are, congratulations! youre one step closer to moving on! haha! try these steps:

• Get a paper and a pen and write all the negative things about that person
• write all the reasons why you should move on.
• talk to a friend
• spend more time with your family and friends
• get rid of all the songs and pictures that reminds you of them.
• put the past behind you before you can move on.
• dont forget that youre a human. its okay to have a melt down. just dont unpack and live there.cry it out and then refocus on where youre headed.
• just remember that the way you think about a person isnt the way they actually are.
• if they dont chase you while you walk away, keep walking.

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this is another post based on my experiences. its really hard. harder than i have ever imagined. if you can relate to this post, i hope one day you will move on and say " here I stay, no looking back"