How to deal with BULLIES, Fight for your Right!

Bullies are everywhere. they make fun of people, gossip, embarrass, hurt you emotionally, or even worse-- physically. and in this post I am going to help you guys how to deal with Bullies, because Me, myself has been through that. always remember YOU ARE NOT ALONE.

• Know what kind of bully you are dealing with.

1. Aggressive bullies are likely to abuse physically and without hesitation
2. Taunting bullies are verbally abusive (calling names, making jokes, teasing, etc.).
3. Indirect bullies spread rumors, exclude others, and harass their victims whenever possible. Try to overcome the rumors, tell everyone its not true and the bully just wants attention.
4. Cyber bullies harass other kids through instant messaging, e-mail, and any other electronic means. There are more specific ways to deal with online bullies. The best way is to delete them and not read anything they say. Be sure to block the bully as well.

• Work your way around the bullies. Try and avoid them in school and social situations. If they go somewhere the same way you do, try a different way, if they can't find you, they can't bully you. Don't go anywhere near them,try your best to avoid them but don't show that you are avoiding them. They will usually read this as fear/success, and they will bully you more as a result.

• Do not show the bullies that you feel hurt if they do something that makes you uncomfortable; just walk off. Bullies gain satisfaction from making others feel hurt or uncomfortable, so giving them a reaction may only encourage them further. The bully wants attention and if you show them that they are emotionally hurting you, they will get more pleasure out of doing this.You cannot talk sense to an irrational person. Walk away with dignity, saying you have better things to do with your time. If it continues, stand up for yourself. If it continues or does not continue, be sure to stand up for others.

• Insult them backThis is a bully's worst nightmare, as they are de-throned from their position of power over you. Remember not to show the bully the attention they are hungry for, as this will allow the bully of the pleasure of actually hurting others emotionally.

• Talk to someone or Report the Bully Consider your parents, school guidance counselor, principal, or someone else who can deal with or punish the bully and protect your safety. It's important that you talk to someone about your problem to get it to end. You can also go to tell a good friend. A good friend includes them standing up for you and you standing up for them as well at all times.

• Help other Victims. Bullies are people who try to make themselves look good. All they want is attention take that away from them and they have nothing. But you can look better by helping others! Try asking the bully why they pick on people. There is never a good enough answer to this question.

• Learn Self Defense. The following steps may be so serious, but it is always important to fight for your right.

1. A quick kick in the groin will make the person feel dazed and look embarrassed long enough for an escape. Bullies aren't always used to others getting the best of them.
2. If the bully's grabbing you or pushing you, it's actually an advantage. Try real hard to keep your balance. Grab one of his arms with your left hand and hit his / her elbow with the other. Then, using your left hand, push away the remaining arm.
3. If the groin doesn't work, try the solar plexus (right below the ribs), or kick a knee to make the person trip.
4. Run, get to a safe place, and call for help.

• Act Like a Lady, Think like a Boss. Outsmart them. Bullies are not that Smart, so you can take this as your advantage. 

1. Agree with them on everything. For example, if the bully says, "What's WRONG with you!?" say, "Pretty much everything, why do you ask?" To agitate them even more, even if they attempt to compliment you after that, DISAGREE with them. So if the bully says "You're a genius," say "No I'm not, but I am an idiot."
2. Laugh at everything they say, and the worse the insult, the harder you should laugh. No faking! Try to think of it as something really funny and actually laugh. This is undeniably frustrating to a bullies, because they want you to cry, not laugh. (I don't think laughing so hard you cry counts.)
3. Scream a quote at the top of your lungs to their face. You should only try this when they've tread on you feet or in general doing something wordlessly annoying. There are many good things to quote, such as the first verse of JABBERWOCKY, songs that have been mostly forgotten, ("I am I, Don Quixote, the Man of LaMancha") or make up some of your own ("I would like a dollar so I can buy a fish!") . In this case, random is the key word.
4. Use old - fashioned insults. "Attercop" and "Simple" are a few good ones.

Now Time for Video Tutorialssss! 

So the videos below are kinda funny but it makes sense, and you can learn a lesson from it. NO HATE, mkay? :)

Now, the second Video is some serious stuff. it is just a short clip about self-defense. 

Hope you learned some lessons and keep in mind that you have to fight for your right, or fight back; but it doesn't mean that you won't respect that person. LOVE YOUR ENEMIES. Act Smart, and Be Smart. and always remember someone from above loves you. Life's a Gift, Don't waste it. Don't harm yourself.

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